Finally, Mr Right

Successful Relationship Therapy Natalie came to Kate distressed about her latest love life disaster. She was in a messy relationship with someone that had duped her into thinking he was single.However, she soon discovered that he was in a long term relationship with a live-in partner. She was besotted with him, but the stress of thinking about him, his partner and who he would chose became so unbearable that decided to seek therapy. An unlikely pairing

To put the situation into context, Natalie was a slim, blond and attractive 35 year-old, with a good well-paid sales career, her ownhome and good friends. He was over 55 years old, overweight and balding, and although he had a successful career, he was not particularly wealthy. On the surface an unlikely pairing.

History repeating itself

Going back over Natalie's relationship history, it was not surprising. This one was just one of several disastrous liaisons where she played second fiddle to her lover’s life. Previously she had a torrid affair with a married man at work, which resulted in her leaving. She also had an on-off relationship with another unattractive man for over 7 years, who would never take her out or show her off. Eventually he ran off and married someone else within months. Her expectations from relationships were low.

No longer second best

During the therapy, a pattern of behavior that stemmed from childhood was identified. Her father left the family to live with another woman when she was seven years old. Unfortunately, not only had this other women taken her father away, but she was also very unpleasant. When Natalie went to stay with them, the woman would shout at her and belittle her whilst her fatherstood by and said nothing.

Her subconscious had taken it on board that she was second best and not worth standing up for. A pattern that was replicated through her adult life in her relationships with men. During hypnosis, we were able to uncover this information, see it with new 'adult' eyes and install a new, healthy relationship programme.

Delighted with the results, Natalie said in her own words:

"Following a string of relationships with the ‘wrong men’ I met with Kate first of all for an initial consultation to see if she could help me. Not only did she find the solution, importantly she identified the root cause - ‘why was I always picking the wrong people to have relationships with?’ After just three hypnotherapy sessions with Kate, she helped me to put the difficulties of my past behind me which had burdened me for too long and gave me confidence and optimism for the future. Hypnosis has been a very positive experience for me, which I only regret I didn't do sooner. The results speak for themselves, today, for the first time I am in a happy balanced relationship."

An exciting update!

Natalie met her wonderful man just two weeks after she completed the hypnotherapy in June 2009. Natalie lives near Kate and only this morning (28th June 2010), she spotted Natalie and her partner walking hand-in-hand to work from her kitchen window.